Sunday, May 20, 2012

TheBoy Scout

So, TheBoy is returning from his first Boy Scout Camporee today. I dropped him off Friday night at the church (the Troop's trailer and gear are stored in the parking lot of the Congregational Church, our chartering organization) with a backpack full of gear, a sleeping bag and pad, and a tent (he insisted on bringing our small dome tent even though the Troop has their own tents. He's stubborn. Go figure). This weekend was their Spring Camporee up at their Scout Reservation, and the theme was Fur, Fin, and Fun - an 1800s trapper motif with hatchet and knife throwing, skill competition, .22 rifles, and even blackpowder.

I couldn't go with him this time - the Mrs. had to work, and something told me that bringing an 8 year old girl to a Boy Scout Camporee might not be the best idea I ever had. I would have loved to have gone - it sounds like they had a lot of fun - but on the other hand, I'm glad I sat this one out. He was in excellent hands the entire weekend, and I think it's good that he was "on his own" for his first campout with the Boy Scouts. No Dad to rebel against and all that.

He'll be home in a couple hours and the campout will be nothing but fond (I hope) memories. He has been hot and cold about Boy Scouts in the past few weeks - early last week he came home all excited because he could recite the entire Scout Law; but by Thursday he was asking how soon he could drop out. Much like Cub Scouts, I suspect that there are other (peer) forces at work here; it's also possible that with baseball, Scouts, and the recent MCAS tests (standardized testing) he's a little overwhelmed. I'm hoping that the Camporee will have set him straight on just how much fun Boy Scouts can be...


In any case, while it was good to have a little quiet time (and quality time with BabyGirl G.!), it'll be good to have the not-so-little guy home...

That is all.

4 comments:

Dave H said...

His ambivalence is understandable. It's like switching jobs - you look forward to doing something new, but you're not sure you're ready. Until it becomes routine (the "new normal" as we say in some circles) he'll continue to swing between liking it and not liking it.

I think once they start him backpacking he'll get over wanting to take extra gear. "Be Prepared" is great until your feet hurt from being too prepared.

Pam Marshall said...

Was just speaking with a father of an Eagle Scout. He mentioned the "PM Syndrome" - Perfume and Motors i.e., girls and cars. He says it's the biggest deterrent to continuing in Boy Scouts. Sad but true. However, his son pushed through. In my experience as a coach, I have never seen finer young men then Eagle Scouts.

Julie said...

Sounds like an awesome theme - i might pinch it for one of our scout camps (next one is a combined camp with another troop and they're planning it .. maybe the one after).

David said...

My father was an assistant scout master and went on almost all my scout outings. He pretty much left me alone and let the other adult leaders deal with me. The other scouts always asked if I minded my Dad always being around. And truth was, it didn't really matter. However looking back now, the camp-outs that I remember as being the most fun were the few that Dad was not able to go on. Which was odd, since we hardly ever interacted at scout outings.

My son has done most of his scout outings without me around. The camp-outs I have been able to attend he says he liked having me there, but then fessed up that he does feel a little "watched" knowing I'm around. He likes me going with them, and does enjoy having me involved, but admits that he has more fun when I'm not around.

So as long as your troop has good involved adult leaders - it's OK to sometimes just let him go. It will be good for him. The rest of the time - go with them, have fun, but make sure you give him his space to grow beyond your shadow.

As for the hot and cold on scouts - just keep him going. That will continue for a while, but cold parts will dwindle and become not so often or long.