Monday, June 15, 2009

Blurry...

Sat down last night and started consolidating the pictures from Disney. One thing that jumped out at me was that in nearly every shot, one or both kids were blurry. Our inexpensive digital camera doesn't have the greatest shutter speed for movement (or perhaps I don't know the proper setting to use), and the slightest movement will result in a blurred shot.

It's amazing how much they move.

What's also pretty amazing is how resilient kids are - within the span of 24 hours, they went from being in a theme park in the Florida heat to playing baseball in a light New England drizzle. And it didn't phase either kid in the slightest. They went to bed late last night, probably around 10 - 10:30, yet both were up at 6:30 AM just like every other weekend (although I have to drag their tired butts out of bed at 7:00 AM M-F when they have school...)

At what point do we lose that motion? At what stage of our lives do we stop really moving, and start reacting? Friends who have teenagers regale me with stories of the sheer volume of food their kids eat, yet they're still rail-thin - once again, it's keeping active and on the go that keeps them from resembling Jabba the teen. College is still pretty much the same, with beer and pizza thrown into the mix.

Then you graduate and go out into the real world. 9-5 job. Relationships. Rent. Engagement. Marriage. Mortgage. Kids... You slow down. The spare tire grows from the donut on a scooter to the rear wheel of a semi. Life wears you down. It keeps moving, even if you don't.

And yet the blur continues - except that instead of you being the blur, you're caught in the blur...

That is all.

7 comments:

Carteach said...

On reflection, your words have a solid ring of truth to them.

There's something else....

After a lifetime and a day of activity, much of it such that we'd rather not be doing it..... many folks learn to savor a moment or ten of stillness.

Me... I just got old, fat, and lazy.

Anonymous said...

I recommend yoga.

Helps you move and heal up.

:-)

Shootin' Buddy

breda said...

as usual, a lovely observation, JayG

Christina RN LMT said...

Wise observations, Jay. And as adults who've grown ever larger, we try to recapture that blur by hitting the gym. It's not quite the same as running around outside and playing with our friends, is it? I think we need to rediscover "fun". Fun that doesn't involve sitting on our ever-increasing posteriors in front of the boob-tube, that is!

Weer'd Beard said...

"At what point do we lose that motion? At what stage of our lives do we stop really moving, and start reacting? "

I'd say my first 60 hour work week gentled me down pretty good. ; ]

Mike W. said...

I'm 23, still eat like a horse, sit at a desk 8.5 hours/day, and my stomach is still flat as a washboard.

At some point I suspect I'll wake up with an extra 50 pounds around my waist and a set of man boobs....

chris said...

you need ya a Nikon D series slr... about the only blur i get from mine is in low light...

i got crisp pictures of jet aircraft in mid flight at an air show a while back with mine